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... Be an Amazing Parent?
Senior Bett Simpson, whose parents were selected as
USD's 2002 Parents of the Year, explains the qualities for
which they were honored.
Have Faith
Faith gives parents perspective, hope and guidance. It allows
families to rejoice in happy times, and realize there is
hope in every tragedy. Through faith, my parents taught
me that life is not always perfect and happy, but that it
always can be fulfilling.
Give
Give your things, your time and your heart to those in need.
There always is something you can give, and in giving we
always receive.
Listen
Often parents are quick to give advice, before asking what
their child is thinking or feeling. Ask and let your child
talk, then give your guidance. After you have listened your
child, he or she will be more likely to listen to your advice,
because they know you understand their perspective.
Believe
My parents always made me believe I could accomplish anything,
which helped me make my dreams become reality. My parents
encouraged me to find my own path and pursue it with all
my heart. Their encouragement helped me scale mountains
others thought were impossible to climb.
Forgive
The best lesson in forgiveness you can give your child is
to be an example of that grace. If you hold grudges, your
children will do the same. Love your neighbor and forgive,
and your child will follow in your footsteps.
Laugh and Love
Even in the hardest of times, it's amazing how laughter
is medicine for the soul. My mom sometimes does it until
she cries, a habit I have gladly inherited. And love your
children unconditionally. Don't always love what they do,
but always love them. You can never go wrong with love.
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