Welcome Parents and Families!
Welcome to the University of San Diego! As your student begins their journey here, we recognize the pivotal role you play in their collegiate experience. One area where your support is particularly impactful is our Fraternity and Sorority Life (FSL) community. We hope Fraternity and Sorority Life is one of many options they are considering!
With over 15 chapters USD offers students a supportive environment where they can navigate the scholastic and social challenges of university life. Through their fraternity or sorority, students build meaningful connections with peers and the broader campus community. They engage in a variety of activities, from leadership development to community service, enriching their overall college experience. These experiences help students grow academically, socially, and personally, preparing them for future endeavors.
If your student is the first in your family to join a fraternity or sorority, or if they are the first child to go to college and join FSL, we are here to support both you and your student through this unique experience. Our staff is available to answer questions, address concerns, and provide guidance throughout the membership process at fsl@sandiego.edu.
We thank you for getting your student here, Welcome to the Torero Family!
Supporting your student
- Joining Process
- Ongoing member support
- Financial Information
- Safety & Well-being
- Parent & Family Involvement
The fraternity and sorority joining process can be a significant and sometimes daunting experience for students as they search for their "home away from home." We understand your desire to support and care for your student during this important decision-making process, especially as it may be their first time away from home. It's natural to feel nervous and excited for them but remember, this is their journey. Empower them to take the lead in their decisions.
To learn about the joining processes for our three councils, please visit our Join Fraternity and Sorority Life page!
We've gathered helpful tips from experts and parents to guide you in coaching and supporting your student through this process:
- Encourage Exploration: Encourage your child to explore various fraternity and sorority chapters. Each organization has its values and culture, so attending recruitment events allows your students to find the best fit.
- Avoid Stereotypes: Remind your child that there are no "good" or "bad" fraternities or sororities. Each organization can offer a meaningful experience. Help them navigate through rumors or stereotypes during their selection process.
- Ask Questions: Encourage your students to ask questions during recruitment events. Help them consider what aspects of fraternity or sorority life matter most to them, such as academic support, leadership opportunities, or community service.
- Manage Expectations: Discuss realistic expectations about the recruitment process. Not every chapter may extend an invitation, and that's okay. Emphasize that the goal is to find a community where they feel comfortable and valued. Remember, they only will be able to join one organization.
- Respect Their Choices: Respect your child's decisions regarding which chapters they are interested in and which invitations they choose to accept. This is their opportunity to find their own path within the fraternity and sorority community.
- Stay Informed: Familiarize yourself with the university and fraternity/sorority community policies and guidelines. This knowledge will help you provide informed support and understand the recruitment process better.
Thank you for supporting your child's journey and growth during their time at USD. Your encouragement and guidance play a vital role in their success. If you ever have any questions or concerns about joining, feel free to reach out to the Fraternity and Sorority Life staff at fsl@sandiego.edu
Additional Resources:
If your student is planning to go through a Panhellenic sorority recruitment, we recommend reviewing Does Your Daughter Want to be in a Sorority? 9 Things to know by Dr. Lori Hart