Reflection
Reflecting on today’s readings, I notice themes of faithful people trying to do their best even in the toughest of times. I think about the world and those who live in our own communities - friends losing their jobs, families living in fear of separation, good people facing trials they could never have imagined. No one really “deserves” these kinds of burdens, and yet, no human is exempt from suffering. It’s easy to believe in God when things are going well. But what about when we do everything “right” and our faith is tested?
Turning away from God feels like an easy out. Placing blame, wallowing in self pity and denying our belief system is always easier than continuing to keep the faith. Even Jesus, on the cross, asked God, “Why have you forsaken me?”
In my own life, gratitude has always been the answer. When things seem overwhelming and too heavy to bear, accepting what is, and acknowledging the good helps me to feel grounded. Recognizing people in my life who support and love me unconditionally reminds me of God’s love for each of us. Even on the most difficult days, I can recognize the feelings of discomfort and also remind myself to be grateful.
Today I am reminded of my friendships that began almost 30 years ago at USD. Through joy and hardship - from career changes to medical diagnoses, tragic loss of loved ones, relationship and fertility struggles - we have managed to show up for each other, especially when things feel too difficult to handle alone. This act of showing up is the human image of God’s love. When my faith is tested, I know that God is there in the faces of those who love me. I know that God’s love is a warm meal dropped off at my doorstep, a phone call from a friendly voice, an unexpected text that reads “it was so great to see you today.” There is no better way for me to feel close to God than in the loving kindness of these relationships.
Even on your hardest day, how can you practice gratitude? You may find the face of God in the most unexpected place.
Stacey (Sweeney) Clifton ‘01
Events Manager, Center on Democracy, Development and the Rule of Law, Stanford University